Dear Ladies, 

The world is in chaos and sometimes we just need a break. Today and the day before I took some time off social media and had a fun spa day…… by myself. You know it’s one of those things you can’t skip, self care is very important especially now. I had a fun mani, pedi session, I do not wear nail polish. I just filed them down and smoothed them out. I find that nail polish looks terrible on my nails, I just keep them clean and short. 

I also gave myself an amazing at home facial, if you want a post on that do comment below. I really took the time to relax and indulge in my favorite products. Spoiler alert they’re all from the drugstore. I find drugstore beauty brands way more trustworthy than trendy beauty brands. I do like to indulge in nice serums and creams from lamer and other high end skincare brands. My current obsession as of now is Burts bees and La Roche Posay. Those brands have the best collection of beauty products. 

Latest Netflix binge show was dynasty, this show is hands down the best show after Sabrina. I created a whole list of the best Netflix shows to watch now here. I have also applied for some virtual internships which I’m really hoping to get into. I really want to dive into the fashion and media industry. I am currently working on a very fun project you ladies will enjoy to the fullest, but for now all I can say is I’m creating some pdf files for you ladies. I will have one out soon on the capsule wardrobe edit I have done here. Comment below if you’ve read that yet, I love reading all your comments. 

I have not read any books the past few days, I’m currently sticking to blogs and fun informational websites like business insider. They are a great source of information on different topics. Currently I have just been obsessed with Hermès birkins and learning the history behind it. So much in fact I’ve dedicated a post to it yesterday, which you can find here. Your welcome! I have watched a lot of Hermès birkin unboxing by so many you tubers and bloggers I really want to save up for one. But for now I will stick with my Burberry speedy. 

I have just been really into the luxurious lifestyle and I love the way they live. I have been looking into Parisian style and I have so much to share about this topic in the upcoming days. So stay tuned for that. I haven’t ordered anything new but I have had my eye on this amazing Chanel inspired piece. I wasn’t so sure if you ladies would want a post on designer dupes, you ladies already know I love to share my tips on the luxurious look for less. Leave a comment if you want to see that, that is all for today. Don’t forget to join me for tomorrow’s fun post. If you have any recommendations or just want to leave a comment please do down below.

Dear Ladies, 

Today’s topic is a fun jump back in history. The Hermès birkin has been the most coveted and sought after bag in history. The unique shape and style of the bag attracts the eyes of many individuals. The beautiful lock and and key is an iconic totem of this bag. Replicas out there can not copy the uniqueness and exclusivity this bag projects.

This IT bag of the decades was a product of a little bit of luck and an airplane sick bag. The famous style icon and actress Jane Birkin was on a flight to London from Paris for an event. Her famous basket bag was with her of course, when she tried to put her bag in those annoying overhead bins her bag released everything. It was a giant avalanche of beauty products, baby bottles and other random necessities. She stuffed everything back and sat down in her seat annoyed and frustrated, she began to express her handbag problems to the oh so kind gentlemen seated beside her. 

The man was no other than Jean Louise Dumas the head designer of Hermès at the time. All her frustrations were solved by a single sketch. Jean Louise Dumas created an intricate handbag on the back of a airplane sick bag, the Birkin 40 was born. Of course the amazing actress was obsessed with the look and style of her custom handbag. The bag was than made later in 1984 as the birkin, named after the actress. 

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What took so long was most likely because the bag was handmade and the leathers were exotic. The bag did not popularize until the 1990’s. Since the bag was handmade with exotic leathers, supply was small. Select Hermès stores could only have few in stock, the bag is highly exclusive. You can get used birkin bags and Kelly’s on sites such as The real real, Rebag and other designer consignment stores. These handbags go from $10,000 to $500,000, the most expensive being the Himalaya birkin. 

This birkin is made with an albino alligator leather, which is highly expensive because of its scarcity. The birkin come in multiple sizes such as the, 25cm, 15cm, 28cm, 30cm, 32cm, 35cm, 40cm, 45cm and the 50cm. Of course over the years the birkin has expanded its sizes from 40cm. The most iconic bags of the birkin is, the Himalaya, The Shadow birkin, the grand mariage birkin and the away we go birkin. 

Over the years the birkin bag gains value and the prices increases, many purchase this bag as a great investment and style necessity. Singapore elite Jamie Chua has the current largest birkin bag collection with over 200 bags. Victoria Beckham is close second with over 100 birkin bags. Let’s just say this bag will go down in the fashion history books.

Dear Ladies, 

Today I wanted to go back to the basics and the whole idea that started my blog. I love to teach ladies out there how to look wealthy and affluent every single day without breaking the bank. I create multiple posts surrounding this subject, today I want to give you ladies the complete guide to affluent dressing. 

Live your life in luxury 

Fabrics

The fabric content of your clothes are very important if you want to look polished and chic. You should always wear natural fibers and high quality manmade fibers. Natural fibers feel best on the body and look 100% better than any type of polyester. Just putting this out there polyester is not a good fiber to invest in. Unless you know and trust the brand you’re purchasing from, steer clear from polyester. Instead wear fibers like, Cashmere, Linen, Silk, Cotton, Wool, Leather, Suede, Tweed. 

I find that these fibers feel best on the body and the more you wash it the better it looks. Except for leather and suede do not wash those, haha. Now for the synthetic manmade fibers, Viscose, Elastane and Rayon are the most luxurious looking fibers I’ve tried on. 

Keep it natural 

Now for fibers you should stay kilometers away from. Do Not Wear: polyester, jersey, pvc/pu leather(anything fake looking). Also do not under any circumstances wear washed out colored clothes. 

Colors

Now with colors I will not tell you to wear all neutrals and to forget about color. That’s a very big mistake ladies make when trying to look expensive. The key trick is to focus on one statement piece. If you wear a bright red bag keep your clothes neutral. Wearing too much will confuse the eye and make you look distasteful. Also wearing monochromatic looks in colors that suit you best will look great for special occasions. Wear colors like, beige, ivory, grey, black, taupe, camel, brown/cognac, white. 

Now for some color wear deep gem stone colors. Colors such as, royal sapphire blue, ruby red, royal purple, orange and Red. Red is an amazing power color and it looks flattering on everyone. Do not wear bright artificial colors like neon. 

Fit & Style 

Your clothes should fit you like a glove. As I said before, if a garment is too big or too loose take it to your tailor, your tailor is your best friend. Also if you can get some clothes custom made for you, that way it looks chic and more personal to you. Purchase clothing in your size if an item is out of stock in your size, size up and take it to your tailor. 

Your tailor is your best friend 

Know the parts of your body you wish to conceal and hide, find clothes that will do just that. Or wear Shapewear from Spanx and Skims. The garment should keep its shape and look crisp and fresh. If it’s worn out throw it away or donate it. Invest in quality clothes that will last you quite a few years (about 3 years and more). Pick and choose clothes that flatter your body shape and style. 

Garment Basics 

To start of your elegant and affluent wardrobe invest in these key pieces. Turtlenecks, Blazers, Tailored dress, silk dress, cashmere, cardigans, black pants, white pants, blouses, tweed jacket. Accessory wise invest in, Silk scarves, designer handbag, hats, sunglasses, pearls, diamonds, jewelry. In the accessory category really invest and purchase items you love and ones that have minimal logos. 

High Quality is best, Keep logos minimal 

Tips

Always look neat and polished. Your clothes should be clean, stainless and wrinkle free. Keep fly away threads at bay and keep holes to a minimum. Your shoes should look presentable and polished. Wear the right type of underwear for your look and don’t show too much skin, it gives a sense of mystery. Comment below your favorite tips and your latest wardrobe purchase. I would love to know! 

As a fashion blogger it is my duty to you, to share my round up of the best trends. I love to incorporate trends into my wardrobe subtly. Trends can be elegant and classy. This is the complete handbook of the best trends. 
The Elegant Aristocrat newsletter offers you a insider scoop in the affluent life. Where they shop, eat and discount codes from our favorite brands. Join the Luxury lifestyle! Starting it off with this year’s IT brand. Bottega Venneta the Italian designer brand has been serving looks and trends throughout this year and last. They started off with the dumpling bag or the Pouch Clutch, which is still seen everywhere to date. Weaved leather bags made a grand entrance this season and we don’t expect them to exit the stage anytime soon. Designers during fashion week have played with this amazing trend and included different textures, styles and prints. 

“Bottega Venneta Has Been Serving Looks And Trends”

Today’s post is all about how to create the perfect capsule wardrobe. My concept is really simple, and with this mini capsule wardrobe you can add another mini capsule wardrobe that works together with your first one. It’s really interchangeable and versatile. As a stylist this is exactly how I shop for myself and for my clients. It is the perfect formula for anyone and everyone. This is how I built up my current wardrobe. As I always say “Invest in the basics and adorn with the accessories”, accessories are the key to making this concept work. This formula works for any clothing category, season and even for your underwear drawer. Also ladies I’ve updated my uploading schedule to Wednesday and Saturday at 6:00 – 6:30 pm EST.  

“Invest in the basics, adorn with the accessories”

– Lady Aristocrat 

For this capsule you will need, 3 tops. They can be any three tops, also keep in mind what season or weather you are creating this for. To pair with those tops you will need any 2 bottoms. This can be skirts, pants, shorts, any bottoms you want. Your next item will be 1 one piece. Now this can be a jumpsuit, a dress, a bodysuit, anything like that. Moving on to other basics you will need 2 outerwear pieces. This can be a cardigan a light weight coat anything that acts as an additional layer. Lastly you will need 2 shoes and 2 accessories. All of your pieces in this capsule should mix and match well with each other. For your accessories it can be a bag, a scarf, anything of your choice. Also ladies don’t be afraid to add color, you can add a patterned piece. Extract colors from the patterns and choose pieces with those matching colors.

Dear Ladies, 

For our Hijabi’s/Muslim women I have created a post on the basics of hijab fabrics. I will explain which fabrics are best for which weather and the ease of use each one ranks. Subscribe to the Newsletter for exclusive luxury content. 

First let’s begin with the basic fabrics. There are, chiffon, georgette, satin, jersey, viscose, and cotton. Chiffon and jersey are the most common and most worn type of hijab fabric. Quick tip, wear light weight underscarves for hot weather and thick underscarves for cold weather. 

Chiffon is a classic hijab fabric. It is slightly slippery but not too much. With the right pins and underscarf, chiffon will be a breeze. Chiffon is a great light weight fabric, perfect for hot and cold weather. They come in many colors and prints. Haute Hijab and Pearl Daisy have many beautiful chiffon Hijabs. 

Georgette is similar to chiffon but it is more textured fabric. It is less likely to slip compared to chiffon. Very easy to style and like chiffon it looks very put together and affluent. 

Satin Hijabs, as you can imagine is very slippery. You might want to use magnetic hijab pins. Available at Haute Hijab and Pearl Daisy. It will look the best at events such as red carpets or charity gala’s. Either way it’s a very formal style of fabric.

Jersey is the best lazy day fabric. It is non slip and and an under scarf is not needed. They come in many colors and prints. It’s most suitable for any hot and cold weather, and casual days. 

Viscose has a close relationship with jersey but they are not the same. It has a little less non slip coverage but it looks more put together. It does not give off that casual feeling jersey does. Suitable for both hot and cold weather.

Cotton is a basic, it works well on many occasions. It has perfect non slip coverage, not to slippery not too non slip. It does give off a slight casual aura once you wear it. But it truly does depend on how you style it. That’s a wrap for today’s post.

Dear Elegant Ladies, 

We all have to look flawless and affluent during our everyday adventures. I have created a simple post sharing my tips on how to be more expensive looking and remain yourself. Subscribe to the Newsletter and the Blog. Lets get begin, shall we. 

First tip is the fabric. Look in your wardrobe look at the fabric content of your clothes. Is it polyester, acrylic or any other cheap cloth. Highly affordable brands often use inexpensive fabric. It won’t feel as luxurious as a cashmere jumper or something like that. Not all luxury or well known brands have the best of quality. Brands like Reiss or sometimes H&M will have really amazing pieces. Remember quality over quantity. 

Tip 2 is the colors. Affluent women often don’t wear overly trendy or vulgar pieces. Instead of wearing a snake skin mini dress, affluent women would opt for a snake skin blouse. They might match this blouse with cream pants with some gold accessories. They wear natural colors or neutrals, while still maintain color. A simple neutral outfit with a pop of color is my favorite style formula. Neutrals pop of colour = expensive outfit/perfect outfit. Always use this formula while styling yourself or anyone else. 

Tip 3 is footwear. Very high pumps or platforms are out of the question. Instead opt for a 10 centimeter heel or lower. If you really want to you can wear a 11 centimeter heel, don’t go any higher than that. Low pumps or even ballet flats will look the best on anyone. Buy shoes with a simple silhouette but with a fun embellishment. It will work every time. 

Tip 4 is dress for the occasion. If you are going to be hiking through a forest, it will not be the best place to wear a floor length gown. Instead wear a cropped pant with trainers or boots. Keep a schedule of what you will be doing that day. Than create an outfit that will work well with your schedule. 

Tip 5 is top handle bags and clutches. A royal tip I might add. It appears to be a staple in British royalty. On certain occasions opt for a clutch or a top handle bag for every day. They are easy to carry and you only need the essentials for everyday. In my Newsletter I have linked some of my favorite pieces. Subscribe to the newsletter to get weekly updates. A newsletter straight to your inbox every Friday. 

Tip 6 is simple jewelry. Affluent people won’t wear very loud jewelry, so keep it simple. A brooch is always a favorite of mine. A simple gold necklace with a all cream outfit is a perfect pairing. If you know how you mismatch different metals you can, otherwise keep it simple.